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آیا می خواهید یاد بگیرید چگونه مردم را بخوانید؟ آیا می خواهید وارد اتاقی شوید و فوراً ایده خوبی از آنچه مردم اطراف شما واقعاً فکر می کنند داشته باشید؟
جیمز همیشه شیفته زبان بدن و تاثیر آن بر ارتباطات بوده است. نمایشهایی مانند «CSI» یا «The Mentalist» یا «Lie to Me» همیشه او را مجذوب خود کردهاند، زیرا این برنامهها در مورد زبان بدن، نحوه ارتباط کلامی افراد صحبت میکنند، و اینکه چگونه دانستن این چیزها میتواند منجر به برتری جزئی در زندگی شود.
متوجه خواهید شد که چگونه تصمیمات ناخودآگاه مردم به پیش بینی ها و نتیجه گیری های آگاهانه توسط افرادی تبدیل می شود که دقیقاً می دانند به دنبال چه چیزی باشند. سادهتر از آن چیزی است که فکر میکنید، و قطعاً جذاب است.
در کتاب چگونه مردم را مانند کتاب بخوانیم، به کاوش در زبان بدن نه تنها برای درک افراد بلکه برای ارتباط با آنها نیز خواهیم پرداخت. به هر حال، چرا ما نیاز به تفسیر و درک آنچه مردم می گویند و انجام می دهند پیدا می کنیم؟ زیرا ما می خواهیم با آنها ارتباط برقرار کنیم، روابط ایجاد کنیم و بخشی از یک جامعه باشیم. چگونه مردم را مانند یک کتاب بخوانیم به شما می آموزد که از طریق مهارت های خواندن کلامی و غیرکلامی افراد را بهتر درک کنید، در نتیجه به شما این امکان را می دهد که به عنوان بخشی از یک جامعه رو به رشد بهتر عمل کنید.
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Introduction
Chapter 1: Explanation, Quotes, Facts
What Is Personality?
Introvert and Extrovert
Myers Briggs Type Indicator
Enneagram Personality Typing
Keirsey Temperament Sorter
The Spectrum of All Personality Types
Chapter 2: Problems and Benefits
The Impact of Culture
How Do I Know Their Personality Type?
Relying Too Much on Body Language
The Power of Groups
The Problem of Face-ism
Physical Attractiveness
Your Mood Affects Your Reading
Still, There Are Benefits
Chapter 3: Introverts – Identify, Communicate, and Personality Type Motivations
Signs of an Introvert
Introvert Types According to the MBTI
Chapter 4: Extroverts – Identify, Communicate, and Personality Type Motivations
Signs of an Extrovert
Extrovert Types According to the MBTI
ENTP – Extrovert, Intuitive, Thinking, Perceiving
ESFJ – Extrovert, Sensing, Feeling, Judging
Chapter 5: Communication Styles
Passive
Aggressive
Passive-Aggressive
Assertive
Chapter 6: Reading Lies in People
Understanding a Baseline
Hand Movements
Itching and Fidgeting
Facial Expressions
Change in Complexion
Sweat in the T Zone
Tone of Voice
The Mouth
The Words Themselves
Chapter 7: Understanding People’s Motivations
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
Experience Matters when it comes to Motives
Guidelines for Understanding People
People are more emotional than they let on.
Chapter 8: Reading the Face and Body – Cues and What They Mean
The Science of Body Language
Facial Expressions
Hands, Arms, and Gestures
Body Posture and Movement
Breathing
Proxemics
Oculesics
Haptics
Chapter 9: Verbal Cues – Reading Between the Lines
Being a Better Listener
Chapter 10: The Art of Thin Slicing
What Is Thin Slicing?
How Thin-Slicing Translates to Day-to-Day Life
What’s in Thin-Slicing?
So How Do I Do This Thin-Slicing?
Chapter 11: What About Me?
Positive Body Language
Body Language During Public Speaking
Don’t Forget the Golden Rule!
Body Language During Interviews
What is my personality type?
What is my communication style?
Chapter 12: More Body Language Tips and Myths
If You Want to Feel Confident
To Make People Participate, Look Like You Are Actually Listening
Shake Hands to Trigger a Connection
Smile to Promote Good Feelings
Encourage Collaboration by Removing Barriers
Improve Your Speech with Your Hands
Look at People’s Feet for Added Insight
Keep Your Voice Low for an Authoritative Sound
Common Body Language Myths Busted
Conclusion
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Do you want to learn how to read people? Do you want to walk into a room and instantly have a good idea of what the people around you are really thinking?
James has always been captivated with body language and how it affected communication. Shows like “CSI” or “The Mentalist” or “Lie to Me” have always fascinated him because these shows talk about body language, how people communicate verbally, and how knowledge of these things can lead to having a slight edge in life.
You will understand how unconscious decisions of people turn into conscious predictions and conclusions by people who know exactly what to look for. It’s easier than you think, and it is definitely fascinating.
In How to Read People Like a Book we will go deep into exploring body language not just to understand people – but to also connect with them. After all, why do we find the need to interpret and understand what people say and do? Because we want to connect with them, create relationships, and be part of a community. How to Read People Like a Book will teach you to better understand people through verbal and non-verbal reading skills, thereby allowing you to better function as a part of a growing community.