دانلود کتاب Strong Couples: Basic Skills that Elicit Connection and Transform Relationships

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Cover
Half Title
Title Page
Copyright Page
Dedication
Table of Contents
Introduction
The Case Of Joel And Lisa
Part I. Hold
1. Setting the Foundations for Couples Counseling
Re-Defining the Client and the Problem
Utilize Blocking
Protecting the Work
Some Final Thoughts on Setting a Foundation
Part II. Discover
2. Knowing One’s Self
Looking Inward First
The Centrality of Rapport
Feeling Reflections as Gateways to the Self
Recognizing and Stating Intrapersonal Patterns
Grounding in the Relationship
Some Final Thoughts on Knowing One’s Self
3. Histories and Contexts of Relating: Understanding Family Patterns and Stages
Identifying Interpersonal Patterns
Some Final Thoughts on History and Context
Part III. Change
4. Genuine and Authentic Engagement
Recognizing Incongruence
Establishing Genuine and Authentic Expressions of Self
Connection After Congruence
Some Final Thoughts on Genuine and Authentic Engagement
5. Responsiveness and Vulnerability
Empathic Responding
Accepting Influence
Revealing Vulnerability
Toward Resolution
Some Final Thoughts on Responsiveness and Vulnerability
6. Sharing Responsibility and Modeling Transformation
Reframing Conflict
Sharing Responsibility
Evaluating Expectations for Change
Adjusting Behavior for Process Change (AKA How to Address Unsolvable Conflict)
Adjusting Behavior for Resolution (AKA How to Address Situational Problems)
Modeling Transformation
Some Final Thoughts on Sharing Responsibility and Modeling Transformation
7. Valuing One Another and the Relationship
Recognizing Strengths
Practicing Rituals
Expressing Pride
Sustaining Connection through Difficulty
Some Final Thoughts on Valuing One Another and the Relationship
Part IV. Integrate
8. Considerations for Application
Embracing Circularity
The Benefits (and Shortcomings) of an Integrative Model
The Necessity of Personal Work
Core Assumptions
Final Thoughts
References
Index